AUTHENTIC GROWTH

What if everything were fine? Stuff happens and we make mistakes. Most of us high achievers are very hard on ourselves. How could that happen? What was I thinking?  Damn, I screwed up, [...]

Dealing with luck and circumstances So much of our experience is outside of our control. And yet, we also have the ability to make many decisions, large and small, that influence how we [...]

What do you believe? Our experience is heavily influenced by our thoughts.  If you think things won’t work out, then you are predisposed to proving this is true. You’re wearing amber shades that [...]

Taking the gentler path I have the good fortune to be visiting Paris where my partner is from, and it certainly has its charms. One thing in particular that I’m enjoying is the [...]

What do you know to be true? How do we know things?  Telling truth from fiction is getting harder these days, so we need to uncover information sources that we can count on. [...]

How practical should you be? Being practical is about being smart - doing what’s needed to take care of yourself. This includes things like paying the bills, ensuring there’s a roof over your [...]

Are you interested in growth? Then you must embrace learning!  I’m a continual learner, however I’ve noticed that I’m most passionate about what I’m actually interested in. Learning something just because I “should” [...]

How fast do you expect to change? In reflecting on my personal evolution and observing the growth of my clients, I was reminded what a journey change can be. It starts when you [...]

How do we find the truth? Have you ever gotten side-swiped by someone telling you something unexpected at the least opportune time?  You know, like during your annual performance review when your boss [...]

Don’t cry over spilled tea My teapot leaked. I was doing a cleanse, 3 meals of congee, a rice porridge as part of an Ayurvedic cleanse, and could not eat any sweets, sugar, [...]

Simple Career Switching I know this magical exercise where you close your eyes, click your heels together 3 times and say out loud: “I want a new career. I want a new career. [...]

When have you been inspired? When you consider all the crazy, silly, foolish, exciting and brilliant things you’ve done in your life, what ties them altogether? YOU! You’re a unique and inspiring creative [...]

The things we do for love I love the Tina Turner song, What’s love got to do with it?  I believe that love often sits at the heart of everything important because we [...]

The truth shouldn’t hurt So how do you feel about genuine faux leather or dairy free cheese (real cheddah)? Well, that depends if you’re a vegan then you’re probably cool with it, but [...]

OMG, please forgive me! I’m a bit embarrassed to admit this, I’ve been a bit slapdash in my weekly missives. I would like to apologize for the typos in my writing. I’ve noticed [...]

Are you making conscious choices? I wish I could tell you that I was a master of intentional decision-making when it came to my career, but alas I’d be lying to you and [...]

Finding more professional fulfillment I recently moderated office hours for the Columbia Career Coaching Network for diverse Columbia University to receive coaching guidance. Not surprisingly, there were commonalities among the many different professional [...]

How to find more joy? I’m not sure about you, but joy is a state of being I’d like to experience as much as possible. In fact, it’s something I realized I was [...]

What’s holding you back? After some time away from the daily grind, I have been feeling inspired. I also have an increased sense of urgency in supporting more leaders to step it up. [...]

How can you up-level? So you’re ready to kick things up a notch. Maybe you want a promotion, new job, more visibility, higher compensation or some other growth opportunity that feels like a [...]

Pay attention to the substance. Reality trumps fantasy every time. * * * * * Noticing takes time I recently moved into a new house. Everything looked great when we initially visited however living [...]

Start by looking at your perspective * * * * * So you want to change? Change is an interesting thing. We think we want things to be different, but then we actually get freaked [...]

AKA Setting boundaries * * * * * How and when to quit? There’s been a lot of chatter about “Quiet Quitting” in the TikTokisphere. If you haven’t heard, this is a trend to cutting [...]

Did you ever want to run away? While I was mostly a good girl as a kid, I do remember one time that I seriously considered packing my bags, telling my parents to f*ck off [...]

How does it feel to just let go? You don’t need to sell your soul or get crushed by the corporate grind. Some ideas for making a change * * * * * Can you [...]

5 keys for taking the leap into the unknown to start your own business. * * * * * Do it your way! Many people wonder whether they can go out on their own. What [...]

How to position yourself for growth and navigate making a change. * * * * * How to position yourself? There comes a time when we all discover that aspects of our work just aren’t [...]

When we complain and become impatient, our energy works against us. Gratitude helps us shift our story and our mindset. * * * * * What are you worried about? Having spent a bit of [...]

Are you letting what you’re attached to define who you are to your disadvantage? * * * * * Do our attachments define us? Ok, so this is sort of embarrassing to share, but I [...]

Rituals take us out of our daily routines and can help us reframe our experience in new and surprising ways. Here are some suggestions around mindfulness practices. * * * * * How do you [...]

How do you respond to new possibilities? Do you notice the signs and invitations to change? How can you say yes to what’s calling you? * * * * * Knock, Knock.  Who’s there? Knocks [...]

We can pursue happiness with intention. Here are some thoughts on how to raise your happiness set point. * * * * * Happiness is a thing! In addition to the traditional self-help industry, happiness [...]

Understanding our dreams can reveal powerful insights about how our fears are catching up with us. * * * * * Symbols and Dreams I’m a pretty active dreamer and on good days I remember [...]

Getting away can give us a new perspective and opportunity to reflect on how we have changed or may need to change to develop new ways of looking at the world. * * * * [...]

Finding your voice What do you have to say? Sometimes we are at a loss for words, even those of us who are quite outspoken and communicative.  We can struggle at times to find something [...]